Friday, November 23, 2018

Awry

Best laid plans of mice and men often go awry. And awry they went!

Remember my lovely winter board setup? Yeah. It didn't work out. Which is a huge bummer in some regards, but I'm at peace with my decision to leave. It's what is best for me and my horses right now.

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Back to familiar stomping grounds

Stan will have the winter completely off most likely. Q and Griffin will be worked minimally between now and the new year with hope to ramp up a little more as the day length grows. Between daylight wasting, my work schedule, my side hustle winter jobs, and my commute, minimal horse time is just my reality. Not the reality I'd hoped for, but c'est la vie!

I could set the bar higher, hope to ride more, lesson once a month, do all the things, but I've learned to be a lot easier and kinder on myself this year. Part of that is introducing more flexibility to my hopes/plans and trusting the process/journey and not creating so much of a to-do list or discrete goal list for myself. I'm certain I'll fit in some lovely rides and a lesson here and there, but it's best I don't plan for it from the get-go.

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Matching game

I'm happy the horses will have 24/7 turnout in a huge pasture with free choice hay for the winter months. They are very happy and will maintain a fair level of fitness just from having so much turnout and playtime. And when I do work with them this winter, it will be on foundational strength-building and suppling exercises, nothing earth-shattering!

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Super dirty grey horse season has arrived. No hot water = stains galore. 

Reflecting back on this summer with the horses in Canaan makes me smile though. It was amazing. I enjoyed so many wonderful rides solo and with friends across beautiful landscapes. In fact, sharing the horses with friends was one of the best parts! There are several horse ladies who are adept riders but simply don't have the time and/or finances to have their own horses. This sets the stage for the perfect mutualistic relationship: they get horse-time and I have help keeping all horses fit!

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But this field tho... So ready for a winter of ground pole exercises and gallops.

Beyond the riding and the friendship, my favorite part about this past summer was finally getting to take a more active role in my horses' care. Prior to this, their turnout situation was such (and is such again) that they don't require much human intervention. They're on 28 acres of some of the best pasture in the area complete with a stream that has enough flow to never freeze over and free-choice hay in the wintertime. I've never had to worry about them having enough to eat!

This summer though, with much smaller turnout areas and poor grass, I finally had to figure out a good recipe for proper nutrition to keep weight on them. It was a bit of a learning curve at first finagling things, but they're easy-keepers all things considered and once I got it right it was easy enough. Seeing them and caring for them daily in this way was so good for all of us. The three of them are closer than ever and the relationship I share with each of them has grown stronger. There is nothing better than seeing them march across the field to greet me, even after a hard ride the day before. (Sure, they know I feed them, but knowing that in the past hasn't stopped them from ignoring me following a big workout.)

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Griffin wasn't on board with selfies

While winter plans weren't what I hoped, I'm grateful the horses are in a place they will be happy and well cared for. With any luck, it will be their last winter in Elkins as big changes are afoot! 😉

16 comments:

  1. Glad you are happy with your new situation! Quick question: what saddle is that on Griff? Love the way it looks

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    1. It's a Tekna S-Line jumping saddle. Found one hardly used on Facebook about 2 years ago and couldn't resist giving it a try. Fortunately, it's worked out!

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  2. I am sorry the winter boarding situation did not work out for you it had such promise. But as long as you have them where you need them that is all that matters!! And yes all plans have a tendency to go awry for sure!!

    oh big changes afoot how exciting!!

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    1. Something about guaranteeing good care that is carefree for me settles me no matter how much it screws with my plans, haha.

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  3. Great attitude! I totally agree that caring for our horses gives us a much stronger bond with them. I grew up with my horses at home and it's so strange for me now to not care for them. I'm jealous of your winter pasture- sounds like the ideal horse life!

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    1. Oh man, what a bizarre change to go through! I'd have a hard time with that. And it's definitely the ideal life. The BO teased them with some hay the other day and they ignored it for two days! And thus we wait a few more weeks to see if they'd like it then.

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  4. I’m sorry things didn’t work out with the new barn. Having horses close is wonderful but not if you are stressed because the facility isn’t working.

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  5. Aw bummer the great plan didn’t end up panning out.... I hate when that happens ugh. But as always the only option is forward. I’m sure with your attitude and approach to life you will have a fantastic winter no matter the circumstances !

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  6. Sometimes some good ol down time can do the soul and body good :)

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    1. It always seems to! This is the first time I've gone into it willingly lol

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  7. It's too bad that it didn't work out, but I know you always put your horses first. I think that they do better than we think being 'off' over the winter. At least that is what I tell myself.

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    1. I'm totally with you and the that's-what-I-tell-myself category. 😂🤣

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  8. Boarding horses is such a challenge! I'm sorry the place didn't work out, but it sounds like you found a great second best place:) And I remember when I grew up in North Dakota, it was quite common for horses to be turned out on a huge pasture (often with cows!) and left alone for most of the winter. There were very few indoor arenas back then and it was too miserable to ride for pleasure. But the horses did just fine and were back into condition very quickly, probably because having a huge turnout with buddies is such a natural environment for them and they get lots of exercise grazing and playing. I bet yours will do well, especially because you work so hard to give them a good foundation otherwise.

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    1. I could hug you for this comment.

      I completely agree re: coming back into work in the spring. Pipe dream to have Q in shape enough to do No Frills in April - it's always so hard for us with our weather!

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